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Anonymous asked: I've been battling generalized anxiety and depression for 1 1/2 years, and my parents have completely given up on trying to get me into school. i'm a senior, i've passed all my classes but i've missed 3 weeks now, and people are bullying me- my main reason why i can't go. it just makes me feel suicidal, anxious and even more depressed than i have to be. i'm all on my own, i've never made appointments for myself before, and my parents refuse to let me on homebound. i feel suicidal every day...
Sorry it’s taken so long for me to answer this, I’ve had so much going on lately, You need to start fresh with your life, It seems like everything trying to get you down, your taking everything to heart and and its making you upset, Its best to do it step by step, So through the week, Tidy your room or something, make sure everything done nice and neat So you don’t have to be messing around with anything, Then make sure your not behind on any work in school/college, If the bullying is getting to a stage where you can not handle it, ask your mum if you can move school, im sure she wants to to pick yourself up as much as you do, If moving school isn’t an option, just totally block out your bullies, they are not needed in the world, and just remember that you are more better than those people, Things will start to pick up, If you let yourself go too much life can just over take you and its so hard to pick your self back up again, but don’t forget not to waste your childhood, Your teenage hood is the best part of your life and you don’t want to waste it on picking yourself up, Trust me things will start to get better.
Anonymous asked: how do i tell someone I have an eating disorder?
It’s not really what one says in a civilised conversation, but maybe you could slip it in, try to start off a heart to heart with her, many secrets get spilled then, You could slip in some clues of something just so she can get the jest, I hope you trying to tell this someone about your eating disorder for help because it is nothing to brag about, If you truly have one you need to find help, serious help, like mental help, because this can get even more serious that what it is now.
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Anonymous asked: I was wondering if you have any advice for me. I am overweight, and want to be ana. I am an addictive personality (alcohol, cutting, sex, you name it), but for some reason am having trouble motivating myself to stop eating. Any suggestions? I really want to lose weight, and dieting and exercise have not been working out for me.
You do not want to be ana, its one of the worst disorders to have, being overweight is not really a problem for teenagers because its easy to get it off, try and eat fruit vegetables and drink water, eat healthy, dieting doesn’t help, because once you’ve finally got to your weight aim you can put it all back on, eating healthy will help your body loose weight but still getting the nutrition that it needs, an adults daily guideline is 2000 kcal try and cut it too 1900 then 1800 and so on, do not go below 1000, once you get in to the routine you should be fine, don’t deprive your body food weather your 16 stone or 6 stone you could end up in hospital, Try and wake up a bit earlier in the morning for a morning run, or go out at night and run then, its best not to do it in the day as you can be distracted, get some music and headphones and just jog at a steady pace, try not to run otherwise you’ll be out of breath before you want to be, take out some energy drinks with you and eat fruit before hand to keep your energy up, you could also try drinking black coffee as it speeds up your metabolism, after you sort out your weight you should start to be a happier person the binge drinking should stop, the cutting should stop, and sex try to keep it in the lines of having it with a boyfriend, I’ve mentioned this to quite a few of the people who have asked me, use an elastic band on your wrist and when you think you need to cut, snap it on your wrist, it wont be the same but your body will suffice for it, slowly as you get better your body will adapt to these new changes and you should stop quite soon, don’t expect these changes in a week or something, it will happen quite slowly but you should be able to drop a few stone in a month if you stick to this, and don’t get to you aimed weight and plan on loosing more, you can get very ill and end up with an eating disorder and you don’t want to put that pressure on yourself and others. Good Luck xox
Anonymous asked: Some days, I really question my sanity. It feels like one day everything is perfect and I hadn't eaten anything, then the next, it feels as if I woke up and it was just a dream and I binge because I am sad. I always smile and put on a happy face, but as soon as I get home, I look in the mirror and cry and I cut. It's a vicious cycle.
Being in adolescent years everyone questions their sanity, weather they are right in the head or not, yes it is a really vicious cycle, some people can not cope with it and totally go of the rails some people just get on with it and do what ever is possible to cope. Not eating anything is not a good way to cope with it, If you are wanting to do something like this you may need help, or just try eating little by little until you get back to your normal self, Every teenager binge eats at some point either for comfort eating or just because their body can’t cope with the lack of food your brain shuts down and forces yourself to eat, your body is trying to tell you that you need the food that you making your body miss out on and mentally your brain knows you are able to get food and does what’s possible to get it, i too act all happy at school I’ve had a lot of practice over the past couple of years and i do to go home and regret almost everything that has happened, Almost every teenager does this, no one s truly happy with themselves until they can accept them self for who they are, but on a lower note this wont happen for a while until your brain has sorted everything out to become an adult, Cutting is ones teenagers wazy to cope, try the elastic band trick, keep one on your wrist and snap it on your wrist when you feel the need to do it, It wont be te same but your body will adapt to it and slowly yo will stop doing it, it will soon slip your mind and that will be the end of it, trust me things will get better, and remember its mind over matter, if you believe you can get through this you will and you can xox
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disckomonkey asked: I feel so empty inside and I dont know what to do anymore. Some of my friends betrayed me. I can't talk to them like i did before. I can't even explain what i feel right now. I really miss someone and i can't do anything about that. I started cutting myself again and i hate myself for that. Because i wasnt cutting for few month.I hate my school my life is boring and pointless as i dont care anymore what will happen next
The ‘emptiness’ you feel is your hormones trust me all adolescent people have gone through it, it can leave your lost and clueless. If your friends have betrayed you, they are not your true friends, i know quite a lot of people have probably said this but you will find your true friends, you may not see it now but it will happen, missing people is just a contributing factor to the other feeling your going to have in life, they’ll pass in time. Cutting is the worst thing to start doing, its addictive and so bad for you mentally, when you feel the need to do it, get an elastic band a snap it on your wrist till your satisfied, and slowly cut down on doing to till you come to a stop. As a teenager life is so boring, you’ve got out the age stage of being content with mostly everything and you want to do more stuff, but your parents could be really strict or you never have enough money or your friends are crap and don’t like the things you like, but trust me, when your older things will get better and life will be great, being an adolescent person is the worst age because you feel ready to do stuff but you can’t because your under aged or not trusted.
Anonymous asked: Because when i was 12 i sex with a 14 year old, is that bad? im 16 now but i don't know if i should tell my boyfriend, I've told him im a virgin because i find it too weird to tell him, what should i do.
When i was 12 i had not even the slightest thought about having sex but some people have more mature minds than other, like mine has recently matured quite fast, others can go quite slow, It only two years, im guessing that even your parents had a 2 year or more age difference, but at such a young age it mustn’t of been good for you, if your boyfriends a virgin then i suppose you should keep it to yourself, see how far the relationship goes before letting out any secrets that could turn into rumours, if he isn’t a virgin, ask him about him sex life first, see if you can sneak it into conversation with him, maybe he will let out one of his secrets, it would make you a closer couple.
Anonymous asked: how old would you say that you think people should be allowed to have sex?
When ever people feel ready, id suggest about 15, but it does interfere with school and other stuff so i guess 16 is the appropriate age, I think it also depends on the age difference. If some one was 15 and have sex with an 18 year old, i think it would be classed as something that should be legal, but a 16 year old with a 19 year old doesn’t seem that bad.
